Self doubts: Easy ways to face self doubts?

The other day i was talking with a mom friend , and she said to me, ” you know i admire you because you have no fear” so i smiled and i told her i have fears, may be i hide my fears, may be i don’t show my fears, or may be my fears doesn’t stop me from being who i want to be , i kept thinking. So i wanted to share with you some thoughts on fears, which is mostly caused by self doubts.

So how do you know if you’re letting your fears rule your life? 

Your life gets smaller, more predictable, and well… boring. When you make decision based on what could go wrong, you get caught in a cycle of  never trying anything new. Whe i become a mom, i had all these kind of fears, and trust me i couldn’t go out in public anymore, you know i love singing and i have sang at church choir, lead a praise session at church, i have been a TV host, public speaker, facilitator, and many more, that is to say i have been i public eyes my all life. But it took me almost 3 good years to have the courage to stand in a congregation and sing a song at church.

Listen, The fear of failure, fear of being embarrassed, fear of public speaking, fear of heights, fear of disappointing those we love, fear of losing friends, fear of rejection, are all real fears.😊

So what can you do instead?

Think of what could go right. Imagine the lives you could change, the problem you could solve, the dreams you could make a reality, it takes courage. You know courage is being afraid and doing it anyway- its not absence of fear.

Let me remind you , all the people you admire a lot have all the same fears, they just do it anyway, and that’s what’s brings magic. Just to remind you, the world needs your unique talents, your wisdom, your very own personal brand of magic. It’s true you could fail. But you could also learn something new, experience something new, or become a fabulous success…

Remember, you will never know unless you try.

Share with us, how do you face, self doubts? Share with us in a comments👇